BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal. If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place. Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought. Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair. The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?” I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan. I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level. But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal. If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you! So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire. Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/ Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/ Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
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Episodes
Friday Apr 26, 2024
Friday Apr 26, 2024
He was the one who betrayed me! He was unfaithful. Why do I feel so much shame?
When your spouse's infidelity has been discovered, it can send a tsunami wave of shame to the one who has been betrayed.
It can be caused by undue shame we place on ourselves as the betrayed or our unfaithful spouse ends up blaming us for their betrayal and it can cause the shame to mount. The betrayal is bad enough, but when you couple it with shame, it attacks your self image, self worth, and can cause you to even enter into guilt and severe insecurity.
What do we do with this?
In today's episode, we will explore the shame of betrayal for the betrayed and how you can navigate it.
I pray this blesses you!
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday Apr 23, 2024
Tuesday Apr 23, 2024
Today is Q & A day!
Another great question from one of our loyal, beautiful women:
How do you know if you can really forgive him for betraying you? It's so hard. Even God gives us a way out because it's so hard.
How can I truly know if I can actually forgive him?
This is such a hard topic but one that we must address if we are going to really heal from the trauma of betrayal.
I pray this helps you!
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday Apr 19, 2024
Friday Apr 19, 2024
I had the privilege of being a guest on the Unstoppable Growth Podcast with Tim & Rebecca Lindsay - my pastors and incredible mentors - to share my testimony of how God used the Unstoppable Growth program to catapult my life, marriage and ministry into what it is today.
I pray you enjoy the interview and it inspires you to step into your healing journey.
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday Apr 16, 2024
Tuesday Apr 16, 2024
Today is Q & A day!
Sarah sent in a question and asked how can you redeem the precious memories within your relationship when they have been tainted by betrayal?
I am giving you 5 ways to "take back" what is rightfully yours.
MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Thursday Apr 11, 2024
Thursday Apr 11, 2024
In the aftermath of a discovery, there is chaos. Your spouse discovered your affair or sexual addiction. This was followed by shock, anger, sadness and an array of emotions. Now there is this huge disconnect between you. You view the story one way while your spouse sees it from a very different perspective. You are in crisis mode! What do you do?
You must triage before you can even begin to move forward. But how?
In today's episode, I'm speaking to the unfaithful spouse in order to help you navigate the crisis right after discovery. I'm giving you 5 ideas to help you move through the early crisis stage so you can begin to establish a sense of safety in order to have a chance at reconciliation.
I pray today's episode will spark a great conversation for you and your spouse.
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Sunday Apr 07, 2024
Sunday Apr 07, 2024
When you discover your spouse has betrayed you through sexual addiction or an affair, you are thrown into unknown territory.
Your reality has been altered, your world as you knew it has ended, and your life has shattered into a billion pieces.
It is like being in a major accident you didn't cause, yet you have been critically injured and now you are in desperate need of critical care.
But what is the first step? And what are the next few?
In today's episode, I am sharing your first 5 steps to take when you have been betrayed so you can begin to heal from the devastation of the trauma.
I pray this helps you begin your healing journey!
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday Mar 29, 2024
Friday Mar 29, 2024
You are depressed, overwhelmed, can't sleep, can't eat, and you have unexplained pain throughout your body since you've discovered your spouse betrayed you.
Are these symptoms of betrayal trauma?
Are there more?
We are looking at an extensive, yet not exhaustive list of betrayal trauma symptoms in today's episode.
Grab your pen and paper so you can self assess and see if you are actually experiencing some of these symptoms.
MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Monday Mar 25, 2024
Monday Mar 25, 2024
Sexual Betrayal is one of the most traumatizing experiences a woman can ever go through in life. The one you gave your heart to, the one who you put your complete trust in, the one who you love with all your heart has given himself to another. Had an affair, be it emotional, physical, or both. Or maybe it is pornography with sexual addiction. Either way, your world has been obliterated. Blown apart, shattered into a billion pieces - like ash in the wind.
What has just happened? What in the world are you feeling? Experiencing? My friend, it’s call betrayal trauma and it’s real.
In today's episode, we dive into what betrayal trauma really is and what makes it distinct from fear based traumas.
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Monday Mar 18, 2024
Monday Mar 18, 2024
Betrayal knocks you off your feet. It turns your world upside down.
Your mind is constantly racing and won't stop, your body is fatigued and you don't feel like you can go another minute.
But there is so much to do. People to take care of. Places to go. Why won't the world just STOP and recognize you are in pain.
You've been betrayed and it's like no one cares, sees, or notices.
So you just keep moving forward. You just keep living like you did BEFORE the betrayal.
I mean, life goes on right?
Beautiful, when you have been betrayed, life cannot just go on like it did before discovery. You need to set some realistic expectations for yourself BEFORE you crash and burn.
I'm gonna help you with that in today's episode.
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday Mar 15, 2024
Friday Mar 15, 2024
Just the thought of being vulnerable with your spouse after you discover they have betrayed you can be frightening. I get it.
I remember thinking to myself, "I will NEVER open up to him again. I will NEVER let him into my heart again. I will NEVER share my thoughts, desires, hopes or dreams with him ever again!" I was wounded, devastated, and didn't think I could.
But then I came to realize how vital it was to open up again if we were ever going to reconcile our relationship.
In order for relationship to work, vulnerability is key. We have to be willing to be authentic, open and honest in the marriage.
If you haven't listened to Part 1 yet....
Should I risk being vulnerable if we are reconciling after betrayal? Listen Here
If you have decided to step into vulnerability for the sake of reconciling your marriage, today's episode will give you 5 simple ways to begin re-establishing your vulnerability. Starting off slow is OK. It's just important that you start.
I pray today's episode opens up a great conversation for you both.
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE