BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal. If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place. Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought. Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair. The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?” I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan. I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level. But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal. If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you! So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire. Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/ Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/ Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
Episodes
4 days ago
Is Betrayal Trauma a real thing? | E157
4 days ago
4 days ago
Sexual Betrayal is one of the most traumatizing experiences a woman can ever go through in life. The one you gave your heart to, the one who you put your complete trust in, the one who you love with all your heart has given himself to another. Had an affair, be it emotional, physical, or both. Or maybe it is pornography with sexual addiction. Either way, your world has been obliterated. Blown apart, shattered into a billion pieces - like ash in the wind.
What has just happened? What in the world are you feeling? Experiencing? My friend, it’s call betrayal trauma and it’s real.
In today's episode, we dive into what betrayal trauma really is and what makes it distinct from fear based traumas.
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Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
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Monday Mar 18, 2024
How to set realistic expectations for yourself after betrayal. | E156
Monday Mar 18, 2024
Monday Mar 18, 2024
Betrayal knocks you off your feet. It turns your world upside down.
Your mind is constantly racing and won't stop, your body is fatigued and you don't feel like you can go another minute.
But there is so much to do. People to take care of. Places to go. Why won't the world just STOP and recognize you are in pain.
You've been betrayed and it's like no one cares, sees, or notices.
So you just keep moving forward. You just keep living like you did BEFORE the betrayal.
I mean, life goes on right?
Beautiful, when you have been betrayed, life cannot just go on like it did before discovery. You need to set some realistic expectations for yourself BEFORE you crash and burn.
I'm gonna help you with that in today's episode.
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MORE RESOURSES:
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Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday Mar 15, 2024
Friday Mar 15, 2024
Just the thought of being vulnerable with your spouse after you discover they have betrayed you can be frightening. I get it.
I remember thinking to myself, "I will NEVER open up to him again. I will NEVER let him into my heart again. I will NEVER share my thoughts, desires, hopes or dreams with him ever again!" I was wounded, devastated, and didn't think I could.
But then I came to realize how vital it was to open up again if we were ever going to reconcile our relationship.
In order for relationship to work, vulnerability is key. We have to be willing to be authentic, open and honest in the marriage.
If you haven't listened to Part 1 yet....
Should I risk being vulnerable if we are reconciling after betrayal? Listen Here
If you have decided to step into vulnerability for the sake of reconciling your marriage, today's episode will give you 5 simple ways to begin re-establishing your vulnerability. Starting off slow is OK. It's just important that you start.
I pray today's episode opens up a great conversation for you both.
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Wednesday Mar 13, 2024
Should I risk being vulnerable if we are reconciling after betrayal? E154
Wednesday Mar 13, 2024
Wednesday Mar 13, 2024
After betrayal, even if you've decided to reconcile the relationship, you can still have a hard time being vulnerable with your spouse.
What if he/she betrays be again?
What if I get hurt again?
What if they lie to me again?
What if he/she judges my feelings?
All these are valid fears.
But how can we get past our fears and anxiety to become vulnerable and open back up to our spouse? Should we?
Let's find out how to address the fears and anxiety along with why vulnerability in relationship is an essential part of reconciliation.
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Sunday Mar 10, 2024
Sunday Mar 10, 2024
Can your marriage really survive betrayal?
Can you salvage it and pick up the pieces to build a better relationship on the other side of infidelity?
How do I know if I should stay with my spouse after he/she cheated on me?
In today's episode, we are looking at 3 questions that can help you decide if you should stay or go after betrayal.
I pray this helps you and sparks a much needed conversation between you and your spouse to see if you can move forward to reconciliation.
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More Resources:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Wednesday Mar 06, 2024
Is there a way to shortcut the healing process from betrayal trauma? E152
Wednesday Mar 06, 2024
Wednesday Mar 06, 2024
Betrayal HURTS! It's devastating and the loss is great. We want to run and hide from the pain.
Just thinking about having to do any kind of healing work can be overwhelming and exhausting.
Is there a way to shortcut the healing process from betrayal trauma? And if we shortcut, will it help?
Today, I'm sharing 4 ways we seek to "shortcut" the process of healing and how they actually hinder our recovery.
I pray this blesses you!
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Ready to take your life back after betrayal? Check out the link below
The Link to Register for the Beyond The Betrayal Group Membership Program: MEMBERSHIP
More Resources:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday Mar 01, 2024
E151: 8 Steps to take to get unstuck from the trauma of betrayal
Friday Mar 01, 2024
Friday Mar 01, 2024
Why do some heal faster than others from betrayal trauma?
In Part 1 of this 2 Part Episode, I shared what keeps you stuck in the trauma of the betrayal.
In Part 2 - we are looking at what you can do to finally begin to move out of the quicksand of betrayal and loss so you can begin to love your life again and actually thrive on the other side of the betrayal.
Women (and men) who choose to do whatever it takes to heal, actually heal quicker than those who don't. I share a lot more in today's episode.
I pray this blesses you!
PS ~ if you didn't hear Part 1: Why do some heal faster than others from betrayal trauma? Part 1
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Ready to take your life back after betrayal? Check out the link below
The Link to Register for the Beyond The Betrayal Group Membership Program: MEMBERSHIP
More Resources:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Wednesday Feb 28, 2024
E150: Why do some heal faster than others from betrayal trauma? Part 1
Wednesday Feb 28, 2024
Wednesday Feb 28, 2024
Why do some heal faster than others from betrayal trauma?
🧐Have you ever wondered why some are able to move on from the devastating effects of betrayal and even Thrive? Have you ever wondered why there are those that just can’t get past the trauma?
🤔Could it be that the first group or just more resilient or it’s possible they have a certain personality type that helps them heal quicker? What is hindering the second group?
I’m going to be breaking all of this down in the next 2 episodes on Beauty Beyond Betrayal podcast.🎙️There are certain components that help both groups heal, and can hinder the process. If you are currently stuck in the quicksand of trauma, you will definitely benefit from these next 2 episodes.I’m even sharing info on my upcoming group coaching membership program that is launching March 11.Registration is NOW OPEN! If you would like early access, as well as the added bonuses, REGISTER TODAY!You don’t have to stay stuck, Beautiful. Healing is available. 🥰
The Link to Register for the Beyond The Betrayal Group Membership Program: MEMBERSHIP
More Resources:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday Feb 23, 2024
E149: Is my marriage to blame for the affair?
Friday Feb 23, 2024
Friday Feb 23, 2024
Many would like to blame marital problems to justify their affair. Or even use the difficulties within the marital relationship as an excuse to stray.
But let me just begin today with truth…
Marriages don’t cause affairs. Good or bad. Many who have affairs actually have good marriages. And then there are those whose marriages are difficult - both husband and wife recognize it - yet only one chooses to cheat. And then there is the scenario where one spouse views the marital relationship differently than the other and strays.
While marriages don't cause affairs, they can certainly make one or both parties vulnerable.
This is Part 3 of the series - What makes you vulnerable to an affair?
In today’s episode, I want to help you identify relational issues that might cause vulnerability in your marriage. Again, this is not a justification for betrayal. Even in the most difficult of marriages, the unfaithful make the choice to cheat and must take full responsibility for their actions.
But we will explore certain factors that can make both parties vulnerable to an affair if not address properly.
Grab your spouse, pen and paper, your favorite latte and let's dive in.
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More Resources:
Beyond the Betrayal Membership Program: MEMBERSHIP
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday Feb 20, 2024
E148: Am I vulnerable to an affair? 3 Individual factors to consider. Part 2
Tuesday Feb 20, 2024
Tuesday Feb 20, 2024
Why are some people more vulnerable to an affair than others? Last episode, we explored social factors that can create vulnerability. (The link to Part 1 is below) In today’s episode, I want to help you understand the individual factors that can make you vulnerable.
Let me just begin by restating what I said in the last episode: What I am sharing with you cannot be used as an excuse for infidelity, nor does the absence of these factors eliminate the possibility of being unfaithful.
Those who remain faithful in their marriage work diligently to do so. They work daily to maintain their commitments and covenant to one another.
So what are some of the individual factors that can play a role in making you vulnerable to an affair?
We are going to explore 3 in today's episode. Grab your spouse, a pen and paper and take notes.
I pray you will both use this episode to have an open, honest discussion to put into place the safeguards you need individually to stay safe to yourself and your marriage.
What makes someone vulnerable to an affair? Part 1
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More Resources:
Beyond the Betrayal Membership Program: MEMBERSHIP
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE