BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal. If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place. Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought. Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair. The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?” I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan. I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level. But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal. If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you! So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire. Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/ Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/ Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
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Tuesday Jun 11, 2024
Tuesday Jun 11, 2024
What do you do when you discover your husband has been unfaithful? He has betrayed you with another or a hidden sexual addiction.
You probably feel hopeless, confused, overwhelmed, abandoned, alone, scared, angry, or maybe you can't even put into words how you really feel. You've just suffered major trauma and it impacts your ability to express yourself and your emotions are all over the place. You don't know which way to turn, how to fix it, and you've probably shut down.
I understand where you are and how you feel. I've been through the hell of betrayal trauma and have since crossed the bridge back into living again. A Life I truly Love.
Today, I want to help you begin the process of climbing out of the rubble of destruction that betrayal can bring. I am giving you the first 3 steps to take after discovery. These are the first 3 of 9 steps I took when I found out about my husband's betrayal. I had prayed, cried out to God for something to help me. I was bleeding out from the trauma and needed a TRIAGE KIT!
I want to bless you with the same TRIAGE KIT He gave me. In today's episode, I share the first 3, but you can download the entire Ebook from the link below. This is my FREE gift to you.
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
And if you are ready to take the most important steps so you can heal and recovery from betrayal trauma, Schedule your FREE CONSULT so we can get you started on your Roadmap to healing!
MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday Jun 07, 2024
Friday Jun 07, 2024
Do you wish your spouse was able to know some of your internal battles since they found out about your betrayal?
Are you having a hard time explaining to them how you feel, how you want to help them heal but don't know how and the battle of feeling like people will ALWAYS see you as a cheater, betrayer, and addict?
In today's episode, I am sharing 6 things the unfaithful spouse wants their betrayed spouse to know after D-Day.
Our last episode was from the betrayed spouse: What the Betrayed spouse wants the Unfaithful to know after D-Day | E172
Both episodes are great conversation starters to help you step into one another's story so you can begin to understand more and move into true healing.
If you are in need of support in your healing journey from betrayal, please schedule your FREE consult with me TODAY! - FREE CONSULT
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday Jun 04, 2024
Tuesday Jun 04, 2024
Do you wish you had a resource you could share with your unfaithful spouse to let them know a few things you are feeling after D-Day?
I've heard you loud and clear! After much research and polls, I created a list of things you, as the betrayed spouse, want you unfaithful spouse to know since the discovery of his betrayal.
It can be hard to articulate what you are feeling when you are in the throws of trauma due to his betrayal. It's like you know in your head what you want to say, but when you try, it just doesn't come out right. I've got you covered in today's episode.
This list is by no means exhaustive. I am just sharing 6 today. If you would like the complete list of 25, just email me at info@lisalimehouse.com and ask for "Want I want you to know after D-Day" and I'll send it right over as my FREE gift to you.
I pray this episode helps you to regain some of your voice that was lost when you discovered your husband's betrayal.
Blessings Beautiful!
❤️ Lisa
Referenced Episodes:
FULL THERAPEUTIC DISCLOSURE:
Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/e114-what-is-a-full-therapeutic-disclosure-will-it/id1594268521?i=1000628732859
IMPACT LETTER:
Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/e115-what-is-an-impact-letter-and-why-should-i-write/id1594268521?i=1000628828036
RESTITUTION LETTER:
Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/e116-what-is-a-restitution-letter-and-how-can/id1594268521?i=1000629564024
TRANSPARENCY PLAN:
Podcast:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/12vrCuMi8_JjS2t8789RiwLCQdujqrBb-/view?usp=sharing
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Thursday May 30, 2024
Thursday May 30, 2024
You've decided to reconcile after betrayal. You feel like things should be going better, but your spouse is still having a difficult time trusting you.
Why?
How do you get your spouse to start trusting you again?
Is it always going to be this way?
In today's episode, I am giving you 3 reasons why your spouse struggles to trust you after betrayal and the first steps you can take to begin rebuilding the broken trust in your relationship.
I also have a bonus for you below ⬇️
Email me for your FREE SUPPORT MODEL: info@lisalimehouse.com
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Monday May 27, 2024
Monday May 27, 2024
D-Day has happened. All the evidence of his betrayal has been laid bare. There is no hiding it anymore.
You are in massive pain. The devastation is beyond words and you are seeking relief.
You are hoping he will change - maybe this will help you heal. But you are still doubting his behavior.
Is he really changing?
Is he really sorry for what he has done?
Is he moving forward to make himself better and restore your relationship?
Are there clear signs that will tell you the answers to these questions and more?
YES!
And in today's episode, I'm sharing 7 clear signs that can help you distinguish whether or not he is really changing after his betrayal - be it from an affair or sexual addiction.
Grab your pen and paper. This one is going to be extremely helpful!
E117: What is a true apology after betrayal? - Listen Here
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday May 24, 2024
Friday May 24, 2024
You discovered his betrayal - either through an affair or sexual addiction.
You googled what to do. First option - therapy.
Like most, even me, we immediately panic and want to know what we SHOULD do after we find out we've been betrayed. 99% of the time, Google will tell you to seek out therapy - either for yourself or for your marriage.
But is that really the best option when you are dealing with infidelity?
I have many who come to me saying they have been in therapy for themselves or in marriage counseling and it is going nowhere FAST.
As a matter of fact, many report they get worse. Why is that?
Well, in today's episode, I give you 2 main reasons as to why therapy is not always the best option after betrayal.
DISCLAIMER: I am a huge advocate for therapy! Please understand, I am NOT dismissing therapy as a means for mental health. I have been in counseling myself and have found it quite beneficial for certain things. Therapy, just like coaching, has it's place and I believe they can both be extremely beneficial to those in need.
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Monday May 20, 2024
Monday May 20, 2024
Can betrayal trauma affect you spiritually?
Can it cause you to blame God?
Can it cause you to be angry with God for not stepping in and stopping the affair or porn use?
Can it cause a crisis of faith?
Beautiful, there is a spiritual side to infidelity and while the unfaithful cannot blame their choices on the devil, could the enemy played a role in the temptation?
We are exploring all of this in today's episode!
I pray it brings some much needed truth into a difficult subject.
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Monday May 13, 2024
Monday May 13, 2024
You suspect your husband is having an affair. He has been acting strange for weeks on end. You may even have "circumstantial evidence". But how do you know if he really is cheating or is using porn? He won't confess it. Now you're left with just wondering and it is driving you crazy.
What do you do?
In today's episode, I'm going to guide you through some practical steps to take if you suspect your husband is cheating.
This episode was the response to a question sent in by a loyal listener.
Did you know you can submit a question as well and I will answer it on the podcast? Just submit your question here: ASK HERE
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday May 07, 2024
Tuesday May 07, 2024
D-Day
It's the day we remember as the DAY OF DESTRUCTION. The Day my world shattered into a billion pieces. The day I found out he betrayed me.
What if you could actually REDEEM that day so it no longer has that kind of power over you?
What if that day could have a different meaning?
Well, it can. You CAN redeem D-Day.
In today's episode, I share 5 steps God had me take to redeem my D-Day and now, that day no longer has power over my life. I am free from it's destruction and you can be too.
Grab your pen and paper and let's dive in...
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday Apr 30, 2024
Tuesday Apr 30, 2024
Is it "normal" for the unfaithful not to tell me everything until I absolutely force the issue?
Why won't he tell me the truth when he has the chance?
Unfortunately, this problem is more common than we'd like to believe.
When someone is caught, they tell only what they absolutely have to tell - and no more.
There's a basic human survival mechanism in most of us that means we don't want to voluntarily disclose things that we know will create bad reactions - about any issue - but especially about being unfaithful.
Let's find out why this is and how to navigate it - from both sides.
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE