BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal. If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place. Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought. Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair. The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?” I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan. I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level. But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal. If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you! So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire. Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/ Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/ Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
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Thursday Feb 17, 2022
Thursday Feb 17, 2022
Hey beautiful,
Betrayal brings a whole slew of emotions, pain, tears, and chaos to our world. It leaves us in a whirlwind of "what ifs" and "where do I go from here?"
There are 3 action steps I took during the first 12 months of my betrayal journey that really helped me leave the chaos of betrayal behind so I could step into my healing journey and really be set free.
We are going to dive into these today. Grab your favorite coffee, latte, or favorite beverage, get comfy in your best chair and let's do this. (It's ok if you're in your car, or even in the gym. :))
Time to leave behind the chaos and step into your healing.
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Cheers to you beautiful!
Lisa XOXO
Monday Feb 07, 2022
Monday Feb 07, 2022
If you have ever experienced betrayal, you know it can be hard to even accomplish the most simple things in life. Day to day living can almost seem impossible. You feel paralyzed, unable to cope.
Betrayal impacts many aspects of our lives: emotionally, physically, spiritually, relationally, even financially.
In today's episode, we are going to discuss 5 ways to recover from the devastation of betrayal so you can enter into a life of healing and wholeness.
And to help you begin your recovery journey, grab my FREE mini course:
UNSHACKLED
You'll also receive my free eBook: Discover the New you - your first 9 steps to take when you find out about the betrayal.
My gift to you this month.
Also, make sure to subscribe and give this podcast a review. It's the highest compliment I receive.
Thanks for listening and cheers to you beautiful!
Lisa
Tuesday Feb 01, 2022
Tuesday Feb 01, 2022
When you have experienced the trauma of intimate betrayal, it brings a level of pain that is indescribable. The hurt is so deep, so complex, so profound that it leaves you wondering if it will ever go away. Your life has been altered in a unique way.
But why is betrayal so devastating? Why does it hurt so much?
To understand the depths of your pain and the powerful way it impacts your life, you need to understand the top five reasons why betrayal hurts so much.
If you are in the midst of betrayal and the trauma and loss that it brings, today's episode is for you.
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It's my birthday month ladies and I want to bless you with my new mini course: Unshackled - breaking the chains of betrayal so you can move forward in your journey of healing. It's my FREE gift to you this month. Click the link below to get on the waiting list. The course goes LIVE February 13th - my birthday!
Get on the waitlist: Unshackled: Breaking the Chains of Betrayal so you can heal
Monday Jan 03, 2022
Monday Jan 03, 2022
It's a brand new year with brand new possibilities and healing awaits.
How can you create the vision for what you desire your life to look like in 2022? How can you move forward in your healing journey? How can you become the woman you desire to be?
Create a VISION BOARD! But not just any vision board. A Healing Vision Board. One that moves you from betrayal to healing.
Let me take you through the process of creating your board to have before you this year so you can stay on track and walk out healing and gain freedom from the trauma betrayal has brought. No need to stay stuck beautiful.
It's time to envision and walk out a LifeReDesigned!
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Monday Dec 27, 2021
Monday Dec 27, 2021
As I look back on 2021, it is ending completely different than I expected.
I truly thought I would be single, but God had other plans.
He has great plans for you as well. Whether you are going into the new year single or seeking to restore your marriage, you have a bright future that awaits.
Join me as I share how God can change your situation for the better. He wants what is BEST for you and is ready for you to receive it.
Don't stay stuck in the trauma of betrayal for another year. Choose to move forward into the freedom God promises. Your healing is coming beautiful!
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Let's jump start your new year with my new 6 week coaching program - Discover the New You: your first steps to heal from betrayal trauma.
Enrollment opens January 3, 2022. Get early access here:
https://lisalimehouse.clickfunnels.com/sales-page1635617926117
I can't wait to meet you, serve you, and see what God has in store for you in 2022!
Cheers to you beautiful!
Lisa XX00
Tuesday Dec 21, 2021
Tuesday Dec 21, 2021
Many questions flood your mind when you find out about your husband's affair. You want to know "Why". "Where". "How in the world could you do this to me"? And the list goes on. What questions should you really ask in the beginning? What are helpful and which ones are hurtful? Yes, lovely. There are some questions that can actually be more detrimental than helpful. These are important to explore in order to begin your healing journey. In part 2 of this 2 part series, we will discuss which questions you should ask and how they can be helpful to move you forward to healing and forgiveness. Remember to share this episode with others who are experiencing betrayal trauma and leave a review. It's how we get in front of more women just like you, who are in need of hope and healing in the midst of betrayal trauma. Get your FREE eBook here: lisalimehouse.com
Wednesday Dec 15, 2021
Wednesday Dec 15, 2021
Many questions flood your mind when you find out about your husband's affair. You want to know "Why". "Where". "How in the world could you do this to me"? And the list goes on.
What questions should you really ask in the beginning? What are helpful and which ones are hurtful? Yes, lovely. There are some questions that can actually be more detrimental than helpful. These are important to explore in order to begin your healing journey.
In part 1 of this 2 part series, we will discuss which questions you should ask and how they can be helpful to move you forward to healing and forgiveness.
Remember to share this episode with others who are experiencing betrayal trauma and leave a review. It's how we get in front of more women just like you, who are in need of hope and healing in the midst of betrayal trauma.
Get your FREE eBook here: lisalimehouse.com
Wednesday Dec 08, 2021
Wednesday Dec 08, 2021
What is forgiveness? And how can I forgive him for betraying me?
Listen beautiful, I asked myself those same questions. This is just a little of what I found to be true…
Forgiveness is not letting the guilty “off the hook“. It is moving the guilty from your hook onto God’s hook.
Forgiveness is dismissing a debt that cannot be paid back. What was stolen from you is gone. It will never be the same. He can never pay you back for what he did to you. And while that is hard to hear, it is truth.
Forgiveness is also releasing your rights regarding the offense. Releasing your right to dwell on it. Your right to hold onto it. Your right to keep bringing it up.
“Whoever would foster love covers over an offense, but whoever repeat the matter separates close friends“ Proverbs 17:9
These are truths about forgiveness. You’re not forgiving in order to say that what was done to you was OK. You are forgiving so that you can be set free!
Read that again👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼
Realizing that the debt owed to you can never be repaid is the first step.
Being free requires forgiveness.
You may not be there yet. That’s OK. It took me a while as well. And I’m still in the process. But I would love to share with you more on the subject of forgiveness.
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Thursday Dec 02, 2021
Thursday Dec 02, 2021
Healing from betrayal trauma first begins by facing the truth of what has happened to you. Facing the truth is not easy, but necessary to heal.
"You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32
It takes tremendous courage to step into your healing process. But you are courageous! And I know you are ready to begin. Join me today as we discuss the first steps of your healing journey.
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6 Week Discover the New You Coaching Program:
Discover the New YOU!
Make sure to subscribe to my podcast, and if you enjoyed the show, had an aha moment, or were inspired to take the next step in your healing journey, by all means, leave a review. It’s the highest compliment I receive. And make sure to screen shot this episode, share us out on your IG and FB stories, tag me @LifeRedesigned with Lisa Podcast and I’ll give you a huge shout out as well. And if you are ready to move out of the devastation of betrayal and ReDesign your life and relationships in the way you desire them to be, hit me up in the DM, I would love to hear from you and connect.
Until next time…
Love God, Live your life passionately, and always choose joy in the midst of all your circumstances.
Cheers to you beautiful!
Love,
Lisa
Sunday Nov 21, 2021
Sunday Nov 21, 2021
Romantic Betrayal is one of the most traumatizing experiences a woman can ever go through in life. The one she gave her heart to, the one who she put her complete trust in, the one who she loves with all her heart has given himself to another. Had an affair, be it emotional, physical, or both. Either way, another woman has had her man and now her world has been obliterated. Blown apart, shattered into a billion pieces - ash.
What has just happened? What in the world are you feeling? Experiencing? My friend, it’s call betrayal trauma and it’s real.
In today's episode, we dive into what betrayal trauma really is and how it affects the one who has been injured by it.
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