BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal. If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place. Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought. Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair. The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?” I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan. I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level. But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal. If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you! So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire. Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/ Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/ Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
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Friday Jun 10, 2022
Friday Jun 10, 2022
There are many faces of betrayal trauma. It can look like exhaustion, neediness, being overdramatic, agitated, suffering from depression, panic attacks, anxiety, and more.
Knowing the different "faces" of betrayal trauma is helpful to know so you will know you are NOT crazy. These are normal responses to trauma.
Having a trauma-informed Christian Coach who can help you learn techniques to release the trauma from your body and brain will help you move through your healing and reach the transformation you desire.
As a Christian Coach, I partner with God to guide you through your journey.
My FREE coaching community is a great place to start. Click on the link below to join our tribe of Christian Women who are on a journey of healing and transformation. We would love to have you!
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Wednesday May 25, 2022
Wednesday May 25, 2022
Why do you desire control?
The desire for control may be rooted in a fear of uncertainty.
Think about it. You were in a relationship built upon trust. You entered into a valve, gave your heart to someone that you loved dearly, trusted that they would protect, provide, love, care for, and take care of you all the days of your life.
Then betrayal stepped in. The one you trusted turned your life upside down by betraying your trust. They turned to another instead of you.
You had absolutely no control over that situation. He had no control over his actions or his choices. You had no control over the damage it brought into your life, the upheaval it cost. The pain that it produced in your life.
The chaos that you are in was out of your control.
It is only natural to now seek to be in control of your life and the situation once again. It’s only natural.
But is it really control that you seek or is it something else?
If you battle the monster of control, this episode is for YOU Beautiful. Make sure to share this with someone you know who is all about the control.
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Tuesday May 17, 2022
Tuesday May 17, 2022
Hey Beautiful!
In today's episode, I answer a question sent in by one of our Beautiful listeners, Carolina. She asks, "How do I stop the current cycle I am in? I am stuck on what seems to be a hamster wheel of insanity. I can't seem to move ahead in my healing from betrayal. Help!"
This is such a great question! And if you find yourself stuck doing the same thing over and over again, hoping to see a different outcome, but it just isn't working, I want you to listen in.
I go over 4 steps to ask yourself as a way to self assess your current situation to help you go from being stuck where you are, to finally moving into a direction of freedom.
I pray this blesses you!
XOXO Lisa
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Thursday May 12, 2022
Thursday May 12, 2022
Betrayal is one of the most painful human experiences. Discovering that someone we trusted has deeply hurt us pulls the reality rug from under us.
When we see the word “betrayal” we may immediately think “affair.” But betrayal comes in many forms.
A damaging aspect of betrayal is that our sense of reality is undermined. What felt like solid trust suddenly crumbles. Our innocence is shattered. We’re left wondering: What happened? How could this happen? Who is this person?
Betrayal comes in many forms…
Infidelity is not the only betrayal in relationships. In fact, there are many types of relationship betrayals that are common. And when it comes to betrayal...
Betrayal is Betrayal is Betrayal. End of story!
Do you wonder if you've been betrayed? Then today's episode is for you.
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Tuesday May 03, 2022
Tuesday May 03, 2022
I have been on both sides of betrayal. I was once the betrayer in my 20's and I have been betrayed as well.
Today's episode is my journey as the betrayer.
A beautiful woman named Tee wrote in and asked if I would share how I betrayed myself, my morals, my family, and ultimately God when I chose to have an affair at the age of 25.
She shared how she too has been the betrayer and is struggling to move forward in her life because of the guilt, shame, condemnation, and grief she is experiencing.
It is my prayer that today's episode will help many women who have been the betrayer and are now seeking to rebuild their lives after betrayal.
If you need help rebuilding after betrayal, let's chat. I have a FREE coaching call waiting for you.
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If you were blessed by today's episode, please leave a review. It's the highest compliment I can receive. It also helps get the message out to other women who need this podcast.
God bless and Cheers to you Beautiful!
Lisa
Saturday Apr 23, 2022
Saturday Apr 23, 2022
Infidelity is one of the most difficult things a couple will ever face. It breaks the relationship at its core and causes a whirlwind of emotions.
What makes it even more difficult is you love your spouse. But is that really enough to save the relationship?
How do you know when or if it's time to walk away from the relationship after betrayal?
Let's talk about 7 signs that you need to take into account when making your decision.
DISCLAIMER: ALWAYS seek God before moving on. He will NEVER fail to direct you. He knows the beginning from the end and everything in between. He knows the heart of all mankind and the outcome.
It takes both parties to heal the relationship after betrayal. And both have to be willing to do the hard work for the long haul.
I pray today's episode will help you as you navigate the murky waters of betrayal trauma.
Friday Apr 15, 2022
Friday Apr 15, 2022
Coaching is on the rise today. Especially for women who have suffered trauma due to betrayal. But what kind of coach should I hire? What is trauma informed coaching and how is it different? And do I really need a coach? If you’ve ever wondered if coaching is right for you, if it could help you navigate the murky waters of betrayal, or wondered what kind of coach you should hire, this episode is for you.
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Thursday Apr 07, 2022
Thursday Apr 07, 2022
LifeReDesigned with Lisa is now Beauty Beyond Betrayal Podcast.
When you’ve suffered the trauma that betrayal brings you are left in a heap of ash. But like the phoenix, you will rise stronger, more resilient, and beautiful!
Take a listen as to where we are headed.
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Monday Apr 04, 2022
Monday Apr 04, 2022
This episode is dedicated to all the beautiful ladies who are in the midst of betrayal trauma.
D-Day anniversary can be an emotionally stressful day. It brings back horrible memories of the flood of information that was uncovered. But you can redeem the day.
Today I share my journal entry from my D-Day. It’s raw, real, emotional; but it leads to massive Hope. I’m sharing it with you to let you know there is One who knows your pain. one who can and will bring g healing and wholeness to you. One who will bring joy back into your life.
I hope it blesses you today beautiful.
Thursday Mar 31, 2022
Thursday Mar 31, 2022
When you are in the midst of betrayal trauma, you lose yourself. You look in the mirror and don't even recognize the woman staring back at you. You begin to question yourself - "Why didn't I see the red flags? Why didn't I know? How could I be so stupid?" And the questions go on and on.
We get to the place where we don't even trust ourselves anymore. I mean, how can I trust myself if I can't even see all the signs of my husband having an affair?
Beautiful, you are not alone. When we have suffered the trauma that betrayal brings, we question our sanity, our abilities, and we get to where we don't trust anyone, let alone ourselves.
I want to help you begin to trust yourself again. This is foundational for your healing and recovery.
Grab a pen and paper so you can take notes on this one. And share this with a friend who needs it. She will thank you for it!
Please leave a review - it helps get the word out so other women just like you can listen in and begin their journey of healing and recovery.
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