BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal. If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place. Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought. Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair. The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?” I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan. I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level. But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal. If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you! So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire. Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/ Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/ Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
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Friday Sep 22, 2023
Friday Sep 22, 2023
After the discovery of your husband's affair, you experience a flooding of questions.
Why did you do this to me?
Do you love her?
How long has the affair been going on?
Where did you meet?
Or maybe you have discovered he has been addicted to pornography for awhile...
How long have you been looking at it?
Why do you look at it?
Why didn't you tell me?
The questions inundate your mind and the longer they go unanswered, well... It just leaves you reeling.
Many seek to have their questions answered through a Full Therapeutic Disclosure:
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But what do you do with all the information you've now had disclosed? How do you process it? How do you tell him how you are feeling?
If you've made it to this point in the recovery process, you are probably reeling from the impact. That's why an impact letter is so effective in your healing journey. It gives you the opportunity to put a voice to your pain.
In today's episode, I'm explaining what an impact letter is, what is in it, how to write it, when to write it, and how it can aid in your healing process.
Grab your notebook and pen and let's dive in. I pray this blesses you!
XO Lisa
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Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa: Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Thursday Sep 21, 2023
Thursday Sep 21, 2023
You have so many questions about his affair. You are inundated by the thoughts, the images, the unknowns about the betrayal. You so desire to know the truth and you deserve to know.
What is the best way to get your questions answered?
Should you just bombard him with all the questions?
What questions should you ask?
Are there some that are more helpful?
Are there some questions that will actually bring you more trauma?
In today's episode, we are talking about Full Therapeutic Disclosure:
What it is
How it works
Why it's beneficial
Can it be a tool in your recovery process?
I believe there is a better way to get all your questions answered - a way that actually reveals truth, helps to rebuild trust, and can lead to possible reconciliation of your relationship.
I pray this brings hope, clarity, and direction for you in your healing journey!
XO Lisa
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa: Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Sunday Sep 17, 2023
Sunday Sep 17, 2023
Do you feel like you will never trust again after finding out about the betrayal?
Are you struggling with the question, "Should I stay or should I go?"
Do you believe that God can really bring triumph from the trauma?
Can you really forgive what seems to be unforgivable?
Can you truly love again after betrayal?
Today, we are finishing up our interview with Josh and Katie Walters! In Part 2, they are dropping golden nuggets to help you restore your broken marriage after betrayal.
Grab your notebook and pen, take a time out for yourself, and spend some time with us today. You will be so glad you did!
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You can find Josh and Katie at the links below:
Joshandkatiewalters.com
Instagram:
@katiewalters
@joshwalters
Francisandbenedict.com
Podcast launching Nov 1st:
“Date night with the Walters” 10 mins to set you up for the best date night ever
If you would like to be a part of their Launch team: “ New marriage same couple”:
https://m.facebook.com/groups/1030944458304028/?ref=share&mibextid=xpxjvb
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa: Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Thursday Sep 14, 2023
Thursday Sep 14, 2023
Can you really have a new marriage after betrayal?
Can you begin again? Love again? Forgive what seems to be the unforgivable?
Today, I have the honor and privilege to interview a couple Josh and Katie Walters.
In 2008 they faced a devastating season of betrayal and what the enemy meant to destroy, Jesus instead brought Victory and the Abundant life and marriage they walk in today. The principals they have used to help others are found in their book New Marriage, Same Couple that releases on Jan 9th 2024.
What they will be sharing with you over the next 2 episodes will inspire you to dig in deep into your recovery work and trust God to bring abundant blessing.
You can find Josh and Katie at the links below:
Joshandkatiewalters.com
Instagram:
@katiewalters
@joshwalters
Francisandbenedict.com
Podcast launching Nov 1st:
“Date night with the Walters” 10 mins to set you up for the best date night ever
If you would like to be a part of their Launch team: “ New marriage same couple”:
https://m.facebook.com/groups/1030944458304028/?ref=share&mibextid=xpxjvb
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa: Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Monday Sep 11, 2023
Monday Sep 11, 2023
What is the difference between being a victim and being victimized?🤔
When it comes to betrayal, we hear a lot about the victims of betrayal. But should we identify as such. I’m not saying you’ve not suffered greatly. Believe me Beautiful, I understand your pain. I’ve been there. I validate your pain. It is real and it is horrific.
But what if we are actually hindering our recovery from betrayal trauma by taking on the identity of victim - not understanding there is a difference between being a victim and being victimized.
I want to help you step into freedom today on Beauty Beyond Betrayal so you can truly begin to heal.
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa: Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday Sep 08, 2023
Friday Sep 08, 2023
Finding out you've been betrayed is like getting sucker punched in the gut. It's like being hit out of the blue with a baseball bat upside the head. It hits you out of nowhere. Betrayal leaves you devastated, dysregulated, disheartened, and depressed.
The discovery of your spouse's affair destroys the trust you once had - in him and in the relationship.
Sometimes the marriage can't be repaired, but if you both are willing to dig in and do the hard work of recovery, it is possible.
But it does take true repentance and remorse on the part of the betrayer.
How do you know if it's really true remorse?
How do you know if he is really sorry for what he has done?
How do you know it's not just guilt from being caught?
Today, I will share 9 signs to look for when you are trying to discern between guilt or true remorse.
Safe this episode so you can refer to it during your recovery journey.
I'm cheering you on Beautiful!
❤️Lisa
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa: Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday Sep 01, 2023
Friday Sep 01, 2023
Dealing with the aftermath of betrayal can be all-consuming. The overwhelm, the pain, the grief, the toxicity between you and your spouse after finding out about his infidelity can leave you feeling like there is no hope of healing from the trauma, much less reconciling the marriage.
➢ Can a Therapeutic Separation help?
➢ What is it?
➢ Is it even Biblical?
➢ What does it entail?
I'm going to be helping you answer those questions and more on today's episode.
Let's dive in Beautiful!
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E100: Moving forward from betrayal | For the betrayed and the betrayer
E101: How betrayal affects the betrayed spouse. Why does it hurt so much?
E102: How do I begin to heal from his infidelity? Steps to take when you’ve been betrayed.
E103: How does betrayal affect the betrayer? Do they really feel the impact of what they have done?
E104: First steps of recovery for the unfaithful | Heal from the effects of betrayal
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa: Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Thursday Aug 31, 2023
Thursday Aug 31, 2023
Have you been experiencing flashbacks, intrusive thoughts, and/or memories of D-Day since you discovered your husband's affair?
After discovery, it can be difficult to overcome the fear, thoughts, anger, pain, and all the emotions associated with this type of betrayal. Some women even say they struggle with reoccurring images of their husband with the other woman.
Beautiful, if this is you, I want to share 7 tips to help you deal with the chaos and overwhelm of his affair. I want you to be able to heal from the intrusive thoughts, flashbacks, sleepless nights, and emotional rollercoaster you find yourself on due to betrayal trauma.
Spend a few minutes with me today. These tips will be a life line for you in the midst of the storm.
I pray these help you!
XO Lisa
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa: Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Thursday Aug 24, 2023
Thursday Aug 24, 2023
Statistics say 20% of husbands have an affair at some point in their marriage. This leaves a lot of wives devastated and frantically trying to pick up the shattered pieces of their lives.
If you are one who has been betrayed, whether you recently found out or you are stuck in the grief of the betrayal - today's episode is for you.
Discovering your husband has been unfaithful is earth shattering to say the least. You are shocked, dismayed, overwhelmed, in enormous pain, and you probably don't know what to do or where to turn.
Today, I'm giving you a "roadmap" you can use in the first few weeks after discovery. What to do, how to do it, and why.
I wish I would have had this when I discovered my husband's affair.
This "roadmap" will help you if you are in the early stages or have become stuck in the process of healing.
I pray this blesses you Beautiful!
XO Lisa
E98: Confronting the Other Woman about the affair. Should you do it?
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa: Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Saturday Aug 19, 2023
Saturday Aug 19, 2023
Finding out about your husband's affair is earth shattering to say the least. But what about finding out 10+ years later? What happens to your marriage when you realize there have been secrets for the majority of your relationship? How do you handle it? Can your marriage even survive much less go on to become something even better?
Today's episode is 2 part of an interview with a couple I have had the honor and privilege of working with in healing from betrayal. Their story is one of hope, healing, restoration, and how the resurrecting power of God can breathe life into a marriage that was once dead and resurrect it into something more beautiful than ever imagined.
Join us on this journey of healing from betrayal and stepping into a #MarriageReDesigned
E105: Can your marriage really be better after betrayal? | One Couple’s story - Kelly & Josh
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa: Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE