BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal. If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place. Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought. Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair. The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?” I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan. I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level. But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal. If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you! So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire. Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/ Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/ Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
Episodes

4 days ago
4 days ago
Have you ever been told to “just move on” after betrayal?
Or maybe you’ve said it to yourself in an attempt to survive the pain?
Today's episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I'm exposing the hidden dangers of rug-sweeping after infidelity — and why trying to bypass the healing process can actually destroy your marriage.
You’ll learn:
💔 Why skipping the healing process keeps you stuck in emotional and spiritual crisis⚠️ The top 5 consequences couples face when they try to “just move on” after an affair or sexual betrayal🔑 A faith-based roadmap to address betrayal in a healthy, God-honoring way❤️ How to invite deep healing — for you, your spouse, and your marriage
If you’re a Christian woman longing to restore your marriage after betrayal, this episode will give you the truth, clarity, and next steps you need.
🎯 Ready to stop faking healing and start rebuilding your marriage the right way?
I invite you and your husband to join my transformational coaching program:
👉 Marriage Redesigned — the Christ-centered path to healing after infidelity.⏳ Spots are limited and fill quickly. Head to lisalimehouse.com/marriage-redesigned to reserve your spot now.
🎧 Press play and discover how real restoration begins.
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✨ Learn how to start rebuilding your marriage after betrayal inside Marriage Redesigned. Visit lisalimehouse.com/marriage-redesigned
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE

Friday Apr 18, 2025
HELP! My mind is being hijacked by intrusive thoughts after betrayal | E233
Friday Apr 18, 2025
Friday Apr 18, 2025
Do intrusive thoughts keep hijacking your mind after betrayal?
You’re not crazy, and you’re certainly not alone. In today's episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I am helping you uncover what intrusive thoughts really are, why they happen after infidelity, and how to stop them once and for all through a God-centered approach.
You’ll discover:💭 The top 3 reasons intrusive thoughts take over your mind🧠 How betrayal trauma impacts your brain and thought life🛑 4 biblical and practical steps to stop intrusive thoughts🙏 Why it’s essential to renew your mind with God's truth for lasting peace
If you’re tired of obsessing over the past and you’re ready to walk in freedom and clarity, this episode is your lifeline.
🎉 Plus — I want to personally invite you to my FREE live workshop:
Roadmap to Recovery: Healing from Betrayal Trauma God’s Way🗓️ Happening April 23rd @ 7pm EST — but seats are limited!
🎧 Hit play, take notes, and let’s begin renewing your mind — one truth at a time.
🔗 Register for the free workshop here: ROADMAP TO RECOVERY WORKSHOP
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE

Wednesday Apr 16, 2025
Wednesday Apr 16, 2025
In this powerful episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, we're diving deep into a question so many Christian women ask after betrayal: Why did he cheat?
We’ll unpack 5 common myths society tells us about infidelity—and reveal the 5 deeper, hidden heart wounds that are often at the root of unfaithfulness.
This isn’t about blame. It’s about understanding the real reasons behind betrayal so you can begin to heal God’s way.
We also share the latest Christian research and explain why some spouses are willing to risk everything for an affair.
If you’re ready for clarity, truth, and a path forward, this one’s for you.
✨ Learn how to start rebuilding your marriage after betrayal inside Marriage Redesigned. Visit lisalimehouse.com/marriage-redesigned
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE

Saturday Apr 12, 2025
Saturday Apr 12, 2025
If you’ve recently discovered infidelity, an affair, or your spouse’s struggle with sexual addiction, you may be asking the hard questions no one talks about out loud.
In this powerful episode, Lisa and BrittLimehouse—Christian marriage coaches and founders of Marriage Redesigned—walk you through the top 7 questions couples ask after betrayal, including the one question most betrayed wives feel too afraid to voice:
👉 Will he ever forget the other woman… and fully recommit to me?
With biblical insight, real-life experience, and compassionate truth, Lisa and Britt unpack what true repentance looks like, how trust can be rebuilt, and what emotional recommitment actually means after infidelity.
Part 1 today.... Part 2 releases Tuesday, so stay tuned...
Now, let's dive in to today's show!
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE

Tuesday Apr 08, 2025
Tuesday Apr 08, 2025
Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your husband feeling...confused? Especially after the betrayal.
Maybe even questioning what really happened —or wondering if you’re the one who’s losing it?
You find yourself second-guessing your memory...your emotions...even your sanity — especially after the betrayal.
If that sounds familiar, you may be dealing with something called...gaslighting.
And in today’s episode — we’re going to shine a light on it.
I’m sharing the top 5 signs of gaslighting after betrayal, what it actually looks like in a marriage that’s been rocked by infidelity...and how to stop the emotional manipulation for good.
You deserve truth.You deserve clarity.And yes, friend — you deserve healing.
So let’s dive in.
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE

Thursday Apr 03, 2025
Thursday Apr 03, 2025
D-Day. The day everything changed. The day I discovered my husband was having an affair.
For me, it was a random weekday — ordinary in every way... until it wasn’t.
I remember the moment I saw the truth staring back at me — a message, a phone call, a slip-up. It felt like time slowed down. My heart pounded so hard I could hear it in my ears. My knees buckled. I felt sick. And in that split second, my entire reality shattered.
Maybe you’ve experienced something similar.
Today’s episode is a tender one. I’m inviting you into one of the most personal parts of my story — what really happened to me on D-Day — the day I discovered my husband’s affair.
So grab a cozy spot and maybe a cup of tea... this one's for the woman who’s just found out, or the one who’s still living in the aftermath.
Let’s breathe together. Inhale His peace. Exhale the pain. Let’s begin.
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE

Tuesday Apr 01, 2025
Tuesday Apr 01, 2025
The pain of his betrayal feels unbearable, doesn’t it? Like a weight pressing down on your chest, stealing your breath, shattering your sense of security, trust, and identity. You might be wondering:
“Will I ever stop hurting?”“Why does it feel like I’m breaking into a million pieces?”
Sweet friend, I want you to know that this pain you're feeling is not a sign of weakness—it’s a sign that something sacred was violated. And denying it won’t make it go away. In fact, healing requires that we embrace the pain.
Today, I want to share 5 reasons why facing the pain is not just necessary—it’s powerful, it’s sacred, and it’s the first step toward true healing.
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE

Tuesday Mar 25, 2025
Tuesday Mar 25, 2025
In this powerful episode, Christian marriage coach and betrayal trauma specialist Lisa Limehouse explores the devastating impact of infidelity on the body, mind, and spirit — and what God’s Word says about the path to true healing.
You’ll discover:
The physical symptoms of betrayal trauma, backed by recent research
The emotional and psychological effects of marital infidelity
How spiritual wounds develop after betrayal — and how to begin restoring your faith
One practical step you can take today to start healing in each area
Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, spiritually disconnected, or stuck in the aftermath of betrayal, this episode offers hope, clarity, and Christ-centered strategies to begin rebuilding your life and your identity in Him.
💡 Designed for Christian women and couples healing from betrayal, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking faith-based infidelity recovery, emotional healing, and marriage restoration God’s way.
🔗 Ready to go deeper? Learn more about the Marriage ReDesigned coaching program at MARRIAGEREDESIGNED.ORG
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE

Friday Mar 21, 2025
From Betrayal to Breakthrough - Katie and Michael Bommarito's Story | E226
Friday Mar 21, 2025
Friday Mar 21, 2025
Today is Part 2 with our Special Guests - Katie & Michael Bommarito
They will be sharing the second part of their story of brokenness to breakthrough.
Katie and Michael Bommarito met and married in seminary with dreams of pastoring a church together and spending time on the mission field. But after more than a decade of serving in full time ministry, those dreams shattered with the public discovery of Michael’s pornography use. Having secretly struggled with a porn and sex addiction for 25 years, the revelation came as a shock to everyone around him. A long series of counselors and accountability groups followed, but Michael continued lying to himself and others about the depths of his growing addiction. For 18 years they lived trapped in a cycle of lying, getting caught, and promising this time it would be different. But finally, God broke through, and Michael was able to admit the depths of his addiction. Surrounded by a network of support, Katie and Michael faced the pain of his betrayal, worked hard at restoration, and found hope and love beyond it all.
Today they have been married for almost 34 years. They have two grown sons, a beautiful daughter-in-law, and are expecting their first grandchild soon.
Listen in to this amazing testimony of God's redemption and healing in the midst of sexual addiction and betrayal.
Listen to Part 1 HERE
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE

Tuesday Mar 18, 2025
Tuesday Mar 18, 2025
Today I have some special guests!
First, my hubby is in the house! So excited to have him by my side as we interview a great couple Katie and Michael Bommarito.
They will be sharing their story of brokenness to breakthrough.
Katie and Michael Bommarito met and married in seminary with dreams of pastoring a church together and spending time on the mission field. But after more than a decade of serving in full time ministry, those dreams shattered with the public discovery of Michael’s pornography use. Having secretly struggled with a porn and sex addiction for 25 years, the revelation came as a shock to everyone around him. A long series of counselors and accountability groups followed, but Michael continued lying to himself and others about the depths of his growing addiction. For 18 years they lived trapped in a cycle of lying, getting caught, and promising this time it would be different. But finally, God broke through, and Michael was able to admit the depths of his addiction. Surrounded by a network of support, Katie and Michael faced the pain of his betrayal, worked hard at restoration, and found hope and love beyond it all.
Today they have been married for almost 34 years. They have two grown sons, a beautiful daughter-in-law, and are expecting their first grandchild soon.
Listen in to this amazing testimony of God's redemption and healing in the midst of sexual addiction and betrayal.
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE