BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal. If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place. Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought. Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair. The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?” I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan. I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level. But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal. If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you! So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire. Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/ Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/ Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
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4 hours ago
4 hours ago
What does true intimacy look like through God’s eyes—and how do we reclaim it after the devastation of betrayal?
In this powerful episode, I’m joined by my friend Michelle Castro, host of the Rip It Off Podcast, for a deeply honest conversation about biblical intimacy, sexual shame, and how to rebuild confidence after infidelity.
We unpack:
What biblical intimacy actually is (and how it radically differs from the world’s version of sex and connection)
Why reclaiming your sexual confidence is a vital step in the healing journey—especially for betrayed women
What Scripture reveals about sexual wholeness in marriage
How to break free from the lies of sexual shame with truth and grace
If you’ve ever struggled to feel worthy, wanted, or whole again after betrayal, this episode will give you clarity, courage, and Christ-centered hope.
🎙️ Special Guest: Michelle Castro, host of Rip It Off Podcast
🔗 Need support on your journey? Learn more about my Roadmap to Recovery Group Coaching Program for Christian women healing from betrayal. Enrollment is open now: ROADMAP TO RECOVERY
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🔥 Registration is NOW OPEN for the next round of Roadmap to Recovery, beginning July 7th!If you’re ready to break free from shame and walk in healing after infidelity, join us now before spots are gone: ROADMAP TO RECOVERY
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
5 days ago
5 days ago
You’ve been exposed. The affair… the pornography… the betrayal—it’s no longer hidden. But now what?
In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I'm speaking directly to the unfaithful spouse whose sin has come to light. I walk you through 5 powerful steps to take full ownership of your betrayal—without blame, without excuses, and without delay.
Learn what not to do, what your spouse desperately needs from you, and how to take bold, humble action toward healing and reconciliation. I share practical examples and biblical truth to guide your first steps in recovery.
Whether you’re the unfaithful spouse or the betrayed listener needing to hear what real repentance sounds like—this episode offers the clarity, courage, and conviction you’ve been looking for.
👉 Plus, learn how to get started with the Marriage Redesigned program—Lisa and Britt’s Christ-centered coaching for couples healing from infidelity and sexual addiction.
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NEXT STEPS:
Website: www.lisalimehouse.com
Women's Group Coaching with Lisa: RoadMap to Recovery
Couple's Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
When betrayal shatters your heart, it’s easy to believe the lie that it also shattered your worth. But friend—your value was never based on his behavior. In today’s powerful episode, we dive into how to separate your worth from your husband’s betrayal and rediscover the identity God placed in you before the pain ever began.
You’ll learn:🔹 Why your worth is rooted in Christ—not in what happened🔹 5 biblical ways to untangle your identity from betrayal trauma🔹 How women in our Roadmap to Recovery group coaching program reclaimed their God-given value🔹 And how you can begin healing, too
This is your permission slip to stop questioning your value and start rebuilding your life from a foundation of truth.
🔥 Registration is NOW OPEN for the next round of Roadmap to Recovery, beginning July 7th!If you’re ready to break free from shame and walk in healing after infidelity, join us now before spots are gone: ROADMAP TO RECOVERY
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday May 30, 2025
Friday May 30, 2025
Exhausted after betrayal? You're not crazy—you're carrying trauma in your body.
In this episode, learn how infidelity impacts your sleep and health, the signs to look for, and simple, God-centered ways to begin healing.
Plus, join us inside Roadmap to Recovery Group Coaching Program for women, starting July 7. Space is limited!
ROADMAP TO RECOVERY
NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday May 27, 2025
Tuesday May 27, 2025
Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your husband thinking, “How did I end up apologizing for his betrayal?” That’s the silent trap of blame shifting and deflection—two emotional manipulation tactics that keep betrayed wives stuck in confusion, guilt, and shame.
In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I expose the truth behind statements like:
“You pushed me to it”
“You’re overreacting”
“I wouldn’t have done it if you hadn’t…”
I walk you through the 10 clearest signs of blame shifting and deflection, explains how these patterns keep you emotionally stuck, and shares biblical truth and practical tools to help you reclaim your voice and start healing.
If you’re ready to stop carrying guilt that was never yours and walk in the freedom Christ died to give you, this episode will bring the clarity, courage, and hope you’ve been praying for.
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
🎧 Plus—get access to Lisa’s powerful 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma course and begin your journey of restoration today: https://lisalimehouse.thrivecart.com/7-pillars/
Friday May 23, 2025
Friday May 23, 2025
Is it love—or control? In this powerful episode, I'm exposing 10 subtle yet devastating ways manipulation and coercive control show up after infidelity.
From spiritual guilt-tripping to emotional blackmail, learn how to recognize toxic patterns that keep you stuck, second-guessing, and silenced. If he only “behaves” when you threaten to leave or uses your faith to keep you from setting boundaries, it’s time to reclaim your voice.
Listen in and discover:
How to discern between love and control
What it really means when your boundaries feel negotiable
How to break the cycle of peacekeeping through self-sacrifice
A biblical path to freedom, clarity, and healing
Ready to heal from betrayal God’s way?Join the Roadmap to Recovery coaching program at https://lisalimehouse.com/r2r-group-coaching
Show Notes
Episode: Manipulation & Coercive Control After BetrayalHost: Lisa Limehouse, Betrayal Trauma Specialist
What We Cover in This Episode:
When "loving gestures" are actually veiled control
How faith can be twisted to guilt you into staying
The emotional blackmail behind “If you leave me, I’ll fall apart”
When your trauma is used against you
Spiritual conversations that leave you confused instead of comforted
What it means when change only happens after a threat
Why you keep giving in to keep the peace—and how to stop
What constant second-guessing reveals
How confusion is used as a tool of control
Why your boundaries never seem to “stick”
Resources Mentioned:
Roadmap to Recovery: Healing from Betrayal God’s WayGroup coaching for Christian women ready to heal from betrayal.Join now at: https://lisalimehouse.com/r2r-group-coaching
Connect with Lisa:
Instagram: @lisajlimehouse
Facebook: LisaJLimehouse
Leave a Review:If this episode helped you, please subscribe and leave a review so more women can find the healing they deserve.
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday May 20, 2025
Tuesday May 20, 2025
Are you constantly questioning your memory or feeling like you're "too sensitive" after your spouse's betrayal? You may be experiencing gaslighting—a subtle but powerful form of emotional manipulation that can keep you stuck in confusion, shame, and self-doubt.
In today’s episode, betrayal trauma expert Lisa Limehouse walks you through:
What gaslighting actually is (and what it isn’t)
The top 5 signs you're being gaslit after infidelity
Why it’s crucial to stop gaslighting if you want to heal
How to set boundaries and protect your peace
Scripted language you can use to stand in truth and regain your voice
Plus, you'll hear how to access to Lisa's new online course—The 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal God’s Way—a powerful guide to help Christian women start their recovery with clarity, confidence, and Christ at the center.
Download the new online course here:
7 Pillars to Healing from Betrayal Trauma God's Way
Quotes from the Episode:
“Gaslighting is not a communication issue—it’s a manipulation strategy to avoid truth and accountability.”
“You don’t need to argue to prove your reality. You just need to know it, stand in it, and guard it.”
“God is not the author of confusion. His truth brings clarity and healing.”
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If this episode helped you understand gaslighting in a new way, please subscribe and leave a review. It helps us reach more women who need hope and healing after betrayal.
🌸 Visit lisalimehouse.com for more resources and healing support.
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✨ Learn how to start rebuilding your marriage after betrayal inside Marriage Redesigned. Visit lisalimehouse.com/marriage-redesigned
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday May 16, 2025
Friday May 16, 2025
Have you experienced betrayal and now feel confused, emotionally shattered, or even manipulated?
This episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal dives deep into the connection between betrayal trauma and emotional abuse in Christian marriages.
You’ll learn the top 3 signs of emotional abuse, biblical truth about how God views it, and how to begin your healing journey.
If you’re ready to stop the cycle, set boundaries, and heal deeply with God’s truth, this episode is for you.
Plus, find out how my brand new online course 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma God’s Way can help you recover and rebuild from the inside out.
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🔗 Grab the course here: 7 Pillars to Healing from Betrayal Trauma God's Way
🌸 Visit lisalimehouse.com for more resources and healing support.
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✨ Learn how to start rebuilding your marriage after betrayal inside Marriage Redesigned. Visit lisalimehouse.com/marriage-redesigned
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday May 13, 2025
Tuesday May 13, 2025
“Am I just being too sensitive… or has my husband really betrayed me?”
If you’ve found yourself stuck in confusion, questioning your reality, or trying to make sense of the pain you’re feeling after discovering lies, pornography use, emotional affairs, or infidelity — this episode is for you.
In today’s episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I’m unpacking:💔 What betrayal really is (and the different forms it can take)🧠 How to know if you’ve truly experienced betrayal trauma💡 The first 3 steps you need to take when you realize trust has been broken🙌 Why you’re not crazy, and how God can redeem your pain
You’ll also hear a personal invitation to grab my brand-new, faith-based mini course:👉 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma God’s Way — available now for just $47!
This 7-day course is your next right step toward clarity, healing, and hope — biblically grounded and trauma-informed.
🎧 Tune in now and learn how to begin rebuilding your heart, your faith, and your future — God’s way.
🔗 Grab the course here: 7 Pillars to Healing from Betrayal Trauma God's Way
🌸 Visit lisalimehouse.com for more resources and healing support.
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✨ Learn how to start rebuilding your marriage after betrayal inside Marriage Redesigned. Visit lisalimehouse.com/marriage-redesigned
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday May 09, 2025
Friday May 09, 2025
Today, we're diving into a topic that often confuses and even hurts the betrayed spouse — the idea that the unfaithful partner might go through something called “affair detox.”It’s real. It’s painful. And it’s important to understand — not to excuse behavior, but to better navigate the healing process.
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Grab the course here: 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma
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✨ Learn how to start rebuilding your marriage after betrayal inside Marriage Redesigned. Visit lisalimehouse.com/marriage-redesigned
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE