BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal. If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place. Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought. Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair. The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?” I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan. I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level. But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal. If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you! So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire. Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/ Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/ Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
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2 days ago
2 days ago
In this powerful episode, Christian marriage coach and betrayal trauma specialist Lisa Limehouse explores the devastating impact of infidelity on the body, mind, and spirit — and what God’s Word says about the path to true healing.
You’ll discover:
The physical symptoms of betrayal trauma, backed by recent research
The emotional and psychological effects of marital infidelity
How spiritual wounds develop after betrayal — and how to begin restoring your faith
One practical step you can take today to start healing in each area
Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, spiritually disconnected, or stuck in the aftermath of betrayal, this episode offers hope, clarity, and Christ-centered strategies to begin rebuilding your life and your identity in Him.
💡 Designed for Christian women and couples healing from betrayal, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking faith-based infidelity recovery, emotional healing, and marriage restoration God’s way.
🔗 Ready to go deeper? Learn more about the Marriage ReDesigned coaching program at MARRIAGEREDESIGNED.ORG
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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
6 days ago
6 days ago
Today is Part 2 with our Special Guests - Katie & Michael Bommarito
They will be sharing the second part of their story of brokenness to breakthrough.
Katie and Michael Bommarito met and married in seminary with dreams of pastoring a church together and spending time on the mission field. But after more than a decade of serving in full time ministry, those dreams shattered with the public discovery of Michael’s pornography use. Having secretly struggled with a porn and sex addiction for 25 years, the revelation came as a shock to everyone around him. A long series of counselors and accountability groups followed, but Michael continued lying to himself and others about the depths of his growing addiction. For 18 years they lived trapped in a cycle of lying, getting caught, and promising this time it would be different. But finally, God broke through, and Michael was able to admit the depths of his addiction. Surrounded by a network of support, Katie and Michael faced the pain of his betrayal, worked hard at restoration, and found hope and love beyond it all.
Today they have been married for almost 34 years. They have two grown sons, a beautiful daughter-in-law, and are expecting their first grandchild soon.
Listen in to this amazing testimony of God's redemption and healing in the midst of sexual addiction and betrayal.
Listen to Part 1 HERE
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday Mar 18, 2025
Tuesday Mar 18, 2025
Today I have some special guests!
First, my hubby is in the house! So excited to have him by my side as we interview a great couple Katie and Michael Bommarito.
They will be sharing their story of brokenness to breakthrough.
Katie and Michael Bommarito met and married in seminary with dreams of pastoring a church together and spending time on the mission field. But after more than a decade of serving in full time ministry, those dreams shattered with the public discovery of Michael’s pornography use. Having secretly struggled with a porn and sex addiction for 25 years, the revelation came as a shock to everyone around him. A long series of counselors and accountability groups followed, but Michael continued lying to himself and others about the depths of his growing addiction. For 18 years they lived trapped in a cycle of lying, getting caught, and promising this time it would be different. But finally, God broke through, and Michael was able to admit the depths of his addiction. Surrounded by a network of support, Katie and Michael faced the pain of his betrayal, worked hard at restoration, and found hope and love beyond it all.
Today they have been married for almost 34 years. They have two grown sons, a beautiful daughter-in-law, and are expecting their first grandchild soon.
Listen in to this amazing testimony of God's redemption and healing in the midst of sexual addiction and betrayal.
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday Mar 11, 2025
Tuesday Mar 11, 2025
If you’ve ever felt pressure to “just move on,” to suppress your emotions, or to act like everything is fine when it’s not, then today’s episode is for you.
We’re tackling a powerful truth: Healing doesn’t mean pretending it didn’t happen. You can rebuild your life and marriage without denying your pain. In fact, true healing requires facing it.
Let’s talk about what that looks like, why suppressing emotions can actually make healing harder, and how to move forward in a way that honors both your pain and God’s restoration.
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday Mar 07, 2025
Friday Mar 07, 2025
I want to get real with you today...
Healing after betrayal is hard.
Some of you have been doing all the “right things,” yet you still feel stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure if your marriage can be restored.
Why?
Because there are key mistakes that many betrayed wives make that keep them trapped in the cycle of pain.
So today, I’m breaking down the 3 biggest mistakes that keep women stuck after betrayal—and what you can do instead to move forward in true healing. If you’ve ever felt like healing is taking longer than it should or wondered “Will I ever feel normal again?”—this episode is for you.
And stick around, because at the end, I have a special invitation for those of you who are ready to take the next step toward healing in a safe, supportive community of women who truly get it.
Let’s dive in!
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NEXT STEPS:
It's NOT too late to register for our next Group Coaching Program that started February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way Get in before the doors close March 8th!
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday Mar 04, 2025
Tuesday Mar 04, 2025
I am asked this question quite often, "My husband is having and affair and he refuses to stop. What do I do?"
Beautiful, I hear you. I understand that anguish. I was there.
My husband refuses to stop his affair for 1.5 years. It was devastating and exhausting.
Today’s topic is one that I know weighs heavy on many of you: What do you do when your husband refuses to end the affair? You’ve prayed. You’ve pleaded. You’ve cried more tears than you can count. And yet, he’s still choosing the affair over your marriage. So where does that leave you? What can you do, and just as importantly, what can’t you do?
Sis, if this is you today, I want you to know this: You are not powerless. You are not alone. And this is not the end of your story. So let’s dive in and talk about what your next steps should be when your husband won’t end the affair.
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NEXT STEPS:
It's NOT too late to register for our next Group Coaching Program that started February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way Get in before the doors close March 8th!
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Wednesday Feb 26, 2025
Wednesday Feb 26, 2025
Why do women fall into the trap of comparing themselves to the affair person after betrayal?
In today's episode, we’re tackling a trap that so many betrayed wives fall into—competing with the affair person. If you've ever felt like you need to “win” your spouse back by trying to be sexier, more exciting, or more like the other woman, this episode is for you. We’re going to break down why this mindset is harmful and give you five powerful ways to stop competing and start reclaiming your God-given worth.
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NEXT STEPS:
It's NOT too late to register for our next Group Coaching Program that started February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way Get in before the doors close March 8th!
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Friday Feb 21, 2025
Friday Feb 21, 2025
🚨TRIGGER WARNING🚨
Today's episode tackles a tough but necessary question that many Christian couples struggle with:
Is watching pornography or engaging in masturbation outside of intimacy with my spouse really considered cheating?
The world says no—it’s harmless, normal, and even beneficial.
But as Christians, we don’t define marriage through the world’s lens—we define it through God’s.
What is the standard for Christian Women and Men and What does God say about it?
We’ll explore why most Christian denominations consider these actions a serious sin against marital fidelity, break down the impact they have on a marriage, and give you steps to find healing.
We will also reveal the truth behind the industry and how it is designed to harm you, your marriage and your family.
And if this is something you or your spouse struggle with, don’t miss the end of the episode, where I’ll share how you can get the support you need inside my Marriage Redesigned program. Let’s dive in!"*
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NEXT STEPS:
It's NOT too late to register for our next Group Coaching Program that started February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way Get in before the doors close March 8th!
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Tuesday Feb 18, 2025
Tuesday Feb 18, 2025
Why Do Women Self-Sabotage After Betrayal?
After betrayal, the emotional pain can feel overwhelming. The enemy wants to keep you stuck in a cycle of fear, doubt, and self-destruction. Self-sabotage is often a subconscious way to protect yourself from further pain, but in reality, it keeps you from experiencing the full healing and restoration that God desires for you. But there is a better way. You can stop the self-sabotage and move forward into true healing.
Wan to know how?
Let's dive in...
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NEXT STEPS:
Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Wednesday Feb 12, 2025
Wednesday Feb 12, 2025
One of the most painful aspects of choosing to reconcile after marital betrayal is facing the disapproval of family members who don’t agree with your decision. They may believe they are protecting you, or they may struggle to trust your spouse again after seeing your pain. Sometimes, this disapproval can lead to being shut out, leaving you feeling isolated and torn between your marriage and your family.
If you are in this situation, know that you are not alone. Many women who choose the path of reconciliation face resistance from loved ones. While you cannot control their reactions, you can take intentional steps to rebuild communication and foster understanding.
In today's show, I am sharing 3 strategies to help open the door to reconnecting with your family.
Let's do this...
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NEXT STEPS:
Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE